Happy Birthday to my big/little girl!

Dear Abby,

You just turned five and you are so excited about it – in fact you are taking real pride in acting like a big girl. Here's an example - for a few months now you have stopped doing carpool, which is something you started back when you were just three! I couldn’t understand why and felt a bit frustrated that you were regressing in this area and making me park the car and escort you into your classroom. One day we got into a little argument about it, and you said “Mommy, I will do carpool again when I turn five.” I said that sounded like a good solution, and we shook hands to cement the deal. Then, last week on your 5th birthday I was tempted to remind you of our agreement as we drove to school but I decided to give you the benefit of the doubt. As we pulled into the parking lot, you said “Mommy, I’m ready to do carpool now. And I’m also not whining at all today because now I’m five now.”

It’s bittersweet to see you acting so grown up. If your dad and I do our job right, then you SHOULD be able to grow up and away from us. But in some ways, I wish you could stay this little forever because I love our nighttime cuddle sessions, daily tickle games, and “mommy and Abby special time.”

The other day you asked me, “Mommy, where do the numbers go in your body?” I didn’t understand the question so I asked you to explain, and you said “You know, like when you turn 4, then 5, then 6. Where do those numbers go?” It was a sweet reminder that you are still our little girl -- even though you’re growing more independent each day. You add so much joy to our family. We love you so much and Emmy, Daddy and I are lucky to have you.

Love,
Mommy